First Steps in Counselling

How We Will Work Together

The way I work within my counselling practice begins with your initial contact, which I follow up with a short phone conversation for us to introduce ourselves and for you to tell me a little about why you are looking to attend counselling. 

Taking the first step towards counselling can feel daunting, so I aim to make the process as comfortable and straightforward as possible.

Initial Contact

Our journey begins when you get in touch. Following your enquiry, I will arrange a brief telephone conversation where we can introduce ourselves and discuss what has brought you to counselling. This is an opportunity for you to ask any initial questions and get a sense of how I work.

Assessment Session

The next step is an assessment session, where we can explore in more depth what you hope to gain from counselling and discuss the difficulties or concerns you are currently experiencing.

During this session, we may also look at significant experiences from your life, including your childhood, family relationships, and other important events that may have shaped your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. There will also be plenty of time for you to ask any questions you may have about counselling or the therapeutic process.

Assessment sessions are usually held in person, although online appointments are available for those who prefer them or find attending in person difficult.

Beginning Therapy

For many people, the assessment is the first opportunity they have had to speak openly and honestly in a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space. While this can sometimes feel challenging, clients often describe a sense of relief in being able to share their experiences freely.

Although it may not feel like therapy has begun at this stage, this process of understanding and being understood is often where meaningful therapeutic work starts.

Deciding to Move Forward

I understand that reaching out for support is not always an easy decision. However, I believe it is important for both client and therapist to take a moment to consider whether we are the right fit for one another.

A strong therapeutic relationship is one of the most important factors in successful counselling, and it is essential that we both feel comfortable working together towards your goals.

Ongoing Sessions

If we decide to move forward, we will agree on a regular weekly appointment time. Before our first full session, I will send you some information about our work together, including details of the counselling agreement and practical arrangements.

You will have the opportunity to discuss any questions or concerns before we begin, ensuring you feel informed and comfortable with the process.

From there, your counselling journey can begin in a safe, supportive, and confidential environment where we can work together towards greater understanding, growth, and emotional wellbeing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

About Richard Curtis, Psychodynamic Counsellor in Dorking, Surrey.

 

 

Hi, I'm Richard, a fully qualified Psychodynamic Counsellor with additional qualifications in psychology and a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

I have extensive experience supporting individuals facing a wide range of challenges, including addiction, grief and loss, separation and divorce, abusive relationships, childhood trauma, neurodiversity, disability, and emotional wellbeing. My professional background includes working within addiction services, special educational needs, advocacy, and community support settings, as well as supporting children, young people, and adults in my current welfare role.

Throughout my career, I have seen how difficult life experiences can affect people in profoundly different ways. While many of us face similar struggles such as loss, relationship difficulties, anxiety, or low self-esteem, our experiences are deeply personal and shaped by our individual histories.

It was through this understanding that I developed a strong interest in psychodynamic counselling, an approach that explores how past experiences and relationships can influence our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours in the present. By gaining a deeper understanding of these patterns, counselling can help create meaningful and lasting change.

Drawing on both my professional experience and therapeutic training, I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where clients can explore challenges such as:

  • Anxiety and depression
  • Grief and bereavement
  • Addiction and recovery
  • Childhood trauma
  • Abusive or unhealthy relationships
  • Neurodiversity-related challenges
  • Life transitions and identity issues
  • Relationship difficulties and emotional wellbeing

As a registered member of the BACP, I work within their Ethical Framework, maintaining the highest standards of professional practice, confidentiality, and ongoing professional development. This ensures that the support I provide is safe, ethical, and centred around your individual needs.

 

Frequently asked questions

I know you will likely have questions you'd like to ask, so below are a few that will help you get started.

How much do sessions cost?

Each counselling sessions costs £60.00 and lasts for 50 minutes when working within a psychodynamic framework. I do offer a limited number of discounted sessions for lower incomes and trainee counsellors.

Do you offer online therapy sessions?

Yes, I'm able offer online and phone therapy sessions for individuals who prefer remote sessions or are unable to attend in person 

What should I expect from my first counselling session?

In your first counselling session we will discuss the counselling process and how I work, confidentiality, your goals for therapy and what brings you to counselling. You will be able to ask questions and importantly we discuss our suitability in being able to work together within a therapeutic relationship. 

How long does therapy last?

Everyone is an individual and each brings their own experiences so my sessions are open ended to allow time for each client to go at a pace that suits them. When clients feel they are ready to move forward without counselling we build towards an ending over a set amount of sessions decided by us together focusing on self resources and support groups.

 

 

Qualifications

FD in psychodynamic counselling skills

Certification in counselling levels 1,2 &3

HE diploma in psychology

Enhanced DBS

Welfare officer certification

Experienced in

Anxiety and depression

Grief and loss

Substance abuse

Suicidal thoughts

Retirement and redundancy

Living with others addictions

Childhood trauma

Divorce and separation

Abusive and controlling behaviour

Family estrangements

Unresolved relational trauma

 

Working hours

Monday 12.00-20.00

Tuesday 08.00-20.00

Thursday 10.00-16.00

Either in person or online